The difference between having a relationship with a guy and being just a hookup for him has everything to do with the time of day. You set the tone based on the time you continually meet him. If you want relationships more than a hookup, you need light. Guys always want you at night. If you fall for the initial attraction and don't do your homework, then you're headed for an often less than memorable one night stand. You can't put the cart before the horse.
6 Things You’re Doing Wrong If You Want To Be More Than Just A Hookup
Here's How You Know You're More Than Just A Hookup To Him
Dating can feel frustrating, especially when you want a serious relationship and the people you end up with just seem to want to have some fun. If you want to stop getting stuck in hookup situations , there are a few things you may be able to do to move closer toward commitment. That doesn't mean you shouldn't have your fun — nothing wrong with just enjoying casual, consensual sex — but if you're looking for something more long-term and keep finding yourself in short-term hookups, there are a few things experts suggest can help. Sue Mandel, psychologist and dating coach for women, tells Bustle.
How To Get Him To See You As Relationship Material, Not As A Hook-Up
This might be new information for many ladies out there, but not every guy is the hookup type. I know. Always have sex on your own terms.
It started out as harmless fun. All you wanted to do was hook up and then go home to sleep in your own bed, but something happened, and now you actually like this guy and want more. The question is, how can you suddenly upgrade yourself from just a hookup to his girlfriend?